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Kevin Ward, Jr. |
"First and most importantly, I want to say that no
matter what people think or say, our family does not need others to determine
what we feel or know about Kevin Ward Jr.
He is our blood, our friend, our champion. Always has
been and always will be. What I want people to understand are the questions.
Why was the toxicology report even an issue? Seems to me
the wrong man was on trial. Tell me why Tony Stewart was not taken in for
testing, why his car wasn't impounded. Tell me how a man the size of Kevin can
make a sprint car turn to the right on impact. Tell me how a lap before (the
incident) everything was fine, but the following lap was poor lighting. Tell me
how a NASCAR star totally forgot what caution means.
Maybe he should get a different headset so he is able to
hear on the radio that the car in caution is up high, so go low. Or was he low
until he rounded the corner and saw Kevin Jr. standing up for himself?
I guess we will never know why all of this was not taken
into consideration. Or will we never know why a fellow driver did not check on
this young man or his family? Or do we know why? I do, because I have seen the
video. It's there, and it's real.
I can't speak for others. These are my opinions and
concerns. I only hope some people take a minute to make sure they have done no
wrong before throwing stones.
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Tony Stewart |
This means nothing to me, but I want to say it is my
understanding that pot stays in a person's system days, weeks, possibly months.
Rumor has it that it may be legalized and prescribed for some patients, so then
will these people have their drivers' licenses taken away because it makes you
react – supposedly -- in a certain way?
To me, that's not the case. It's known to mellow a
person. We understand that the report showed marijuana, but we as a family
don't believe he was under the influence or impaired at the time due to the 10
hours prior to the race that he spent with the family.
What we do believe is that maybe people react to certain
situations because of anger. I've seen it in NASCAR, sports functions and even
on our own roads. And yes, these people have to pay for their actions. Well, I
guess it depends on who you are.
And to end this, I've heard time and time again, "We
just want Kevin's story out there." Here you go. Kevin Ward Jr. was an
amazing person. His life was wrapped around family, friends and racing, which
he started at age 4. Just a small-town boy having fun until the days turned
into years, and it then became his passion and life. The trophies, plaques and
pictures that fill his home, garage and workshop show his hard work and
dedication to racing – his love for the sport.
Through it all, he had the support of his family and
friends behind him. He opened his life to our community. As you would go by the
shop where he and his dad worked on the car for the upcoming race or after a
race, the doors would be wide open and there would always be people in and out
wishing him luck, sharing a story, offering a hand or simply just standing
there in their own way saying, "We're here for you, bud."
It took a lot of money to live his dream, and as a
family, they were able to do that. But not once did he ever think he was better
than anyone else because he could afford it. That was proven when somewhere
around 1,500 people came out to support and comfort us on our darkest days. It
shows how many hearts and lives he touched.
The orange, white and black that was worn in honor of our
champion sprint car driver was overwhelming, to say the least.
The tracks that have since honored Kevin Ward Jr. with
memorial events, his name in the ESS (Empire Super Sprints) Hall of Fame, the
many lives that have been changed forever – that's all because of one person's
love and respect for others. And that, to me, is what a person is made of. His
smile will forever be what gets us through.
Godspeed, No. 13. Aunt Wendi loves you."